Single mom of 2 dating
I got married at 35 and had kids at 37 and 39 and I was ahead of most of my friends.
There’s no way that I – or most men who don’t have their shit together – would willingly enter into a relationship with a woman who has so many other responsibilities, the way all moms do.
You should just find a guy who is looking for a Brady Bunch family, who sees sex as the icing on the cake instead of the cake itself.
Maybe your ex shares custody and gives you weekends off, but I think we can all agree that women with four kids have less available time than women without four kids.
At the time, when I was 33, I blamed her for this, thinking that if she liked me more, she’d make a greater effort. What I didn’t know then is that kids suck up every second of free time you’ve got, and that you have to work extra hard to create me-time, much less couple-time.
Ultimately, all I wanted from that single mom was to hook up, because that’s all I felt she could give me.
We are now saving to get married and it’s all down to the site.
I’ve been in a terrible relationship before and honestly now, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong guy.At risk of making myself look bad, I once dated a single mom of a two-year-old.She was smart, she was sexy, she was financially independent – and she had no time to give to me.My life is happy, but I really would love to share it with someone…but dating when you have FOUR kids is like the Mt Everest of the dating world!